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Remember to live a bit sometimes
We all have things in our life we wish we could change and improve. Maybe you don’t have enough money. Maybe you need to lose some weight. Maybe you need to put some effort into improving your relationships.
Modern culture has an attitude of constant improvement and success. Generally, this is a great thing. It helps people make their lives as nice as they can possibly be.
But remember sometimes to stop and smell the roses, as the old saying goes. Money, health, relationships, careers and houses are all nice things to have. But in the end, your time is your most valuable possession. Particularly time when you are young and healthy.
It is a requirement of living in this world that you trade some of this time in ways you might not always enjoy in order to achieve goals. You may have to work on things that aren’t fun. You might have to struggle to improve your health at the gym when you’d rather be at home with your feet up.
But you should also blow a little of it on just being happy. Earlier this year, for example, I took three months off just to travel and enjoy myself. If I look at it rationally, this cost me a lot of money. Not only in what I spent, but also in lost earnings.
But at the same time, it made me immensely happy. I got to enjoy the rewards of all my hard work over the years. It was one of the best times of my life.
Just taking some time off to let go of life’s stresses and simply enjoy being alive is something everyone should do sometimes. Take what you can afford, whether it’s a simple weekend or the luxury of an entire year.
Remember, you only have one life and it’s just a few short decades long. It’s a shame to waste it all stressing away in a cubicle or at a building site. Take some time to get out in the sunshine and feel what it is to be alive.
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